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"I watched the National Geographic Channel and I came to learn of the Fish called The Electric Eel. For the first time,I learnt the actual name is Electrophorus electricusc. The fish is commonly found in the Amazon and generally in Fresh Waters. In the narration of the documentary, Electric Eels are mostly blind although they are not born blind. To me they are such beautiful creatures and i was wondering how come they are blind? i then read about them and came to understand that these animals have three pairs of abdominal organs that produce electricity as a form of defensive mechanism against predators. Whenever the animal is under attack, it activates an electric field of up to 860 Volts (that is nearly 4 times the 220V electricity supplied to our homes) to electrocute its attacker. The Eel also requires rising to the surface of the water every 10 minutes in order to take in Oxygen before going back under the water. Due to this routine, the fish has developed a mindset that it is vulnerable to attack due to constant coming up to breathe and hence it is always on a ‘suspicion mission’ – It is always and constantly electrocuting its environment even when it is not under attack. The sad effect is that in the course of continuous electrocuting of its environment its eyes are also electrocuted and hence its blindness! But then as i watched this animal swimming around blind and only using its sense of feel and ears, and been unable to see, it goes into more suspicion and every movement it feels in the waters, it releases further electric shock worsening his plight – The animal thus goes into a cyclic paranoia and self infliction of pain causing it to be more blind irreversibly.
You see such is the situation in some people’s life. They suspect everybody and everything! They are always on a mindset of ‘someone is doing me’, ‘something evil is coming to happen to me’, ‘someone is planning to harm me’, etc. By having this kind of mental picture such people release shock waves that electrocutes whoever comes near them. Friends who mean well, are branded enemies, parents are considered evil, siblings are suspected of hatching evil plots, work colleagues are branded enemies, etc. When people go into such self-destruct mode, all they think about is themselves and not the feelings of others. The desire to protect oneself ends up in hurting others. Dont be blinded by fear, hate and related complexes. There's no greater danger to your survival than your owny fears. Do yourself a favor, keep an open mind towards everyone and everything and the universe will open itself to you " #copied
*Wish you all a fruitful week . May it be well with you and yours *

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I'm a narcissist.

Having said that, I'll explain how it was dawned on me that I am an extremely careless, and toxic human being. For 10 years now I have been in the psychiatric ward multiple times a year mainly being treated for major depression with recurrent psychosis. I was struggling with drugs and alcohol severely, so much that I haven't been able to maintain a job or interpersonal relationships. I know I am a very emotionally abusive human being and I knew I had to express cognitive empathy I learned as oppose to emotional empathy. For the life of me I couldn't figure out why I'm so self sabotaging and I wreck havoc on anyone and everything around me with no regard for other peoples feelings or what happens to me. I spent most of my time in and out of treatment; I won't even mention how many times. I have an inability to commit to anything or see it as my fault. I would have extreme bouts of depression so bad that I routinely thought of suicide and several attempts at my life. However I had a therapist who brought me GENTLY to the idea after 4 months of treatment that I was well qualified for the narcissism spectrum. As soon as she mentioned that I left treatment immediately making her feel incompetent and expressing that I never needed to be there in the first place.

After putting effort into researching this condition extensively It all started making sense. I started seeing myself for who I am and what I've done, and I no longer want to do these things to people. I was very popular years ago, where I have pushed all my friends away and most family away and avoid the entire world now. I wanted to post this for education as well as find out If there is any hope of recovery for this? Is it truly possible for someone to learn emotional empathy and sustain healthy relationships?

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Stop engaging in sexual conversation on Felloly and other social media platforms. Beware of men and women who want to engage you in sexual conversation. They are out to pollute your spirit. The Bible says, “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” (1 Corinthians 15:33 KJV) You need to be careful and guard your heart, mouth and hands. The word of God is very clear, “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” (Ephesians 4:29 KJV) Let it also not proceed from your hands as your type on your Phone or PC. Sexual conversation will do among others three damages to you. 1. It will set your body on sexually and make you do stupid things. 2. It will waste your time and life as it is not in any way profitable. 3. It will corrupt your heart and cut you off from the presence of the Lord. You are not going to find a godly spouse by engaging in unholy conversation online. If you are married, it will ruin your marriage. Stand up for Jesus and say no to ungodly chats from today. “But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;” (1 Peter 1:15 KJV)...
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